In our fallen state, all of us are naturally rebellious. Selfishness, self-indulgence, and self-autonomy are central–we want to make our own rules. But humility and submission are to be central in the lives of followers of Christ.

The concept of mentoring is familiar and quite popular. But it may be helpful to remember that real mentoring (or discipleship in the biblical sense) involves commitment, intentional effort, and practical action on the part of those involved.

What’s most important when communicating with your teenagers? How can you minimize tension and create the opportunity to deepen your relationship and offer spiritual guidance? John interviews Cameron Engle, Calvary’s Pastor of High School Ministry.